Never go on the looks take time, effort and have patience to really get to know him/her. Everybody try to put their best foot forward to make a good impression on the first meet. Avoid believing in eyes as it is said

"Choose a lifepartner rather by your ear than your eye."

Just use the time you have together to get to know his/her heart and mind. It doesnot seems to be an interrogation. But try to know

. What does he/she likes?

. What does not he/she not like?

. What are his/her views on women's issues?

. What do his/her friend think about him?

. How does he/she treat his family?

. How does he/she talk about his past relationships?

. Does he/she accept responsibility for his/her mistakes or blame others for all his/her problems?

. What are his/her regrets?

. Is he/she considerate of other's feelings?

Getting married is a huge step, so it's worth making sure you and your partner are thinking along the same way before you tie the knot.

. Can we love, trust and respect each other?

. Do we share the same expectations of marriage?

. Do we share things in common that make us shout, cry and laugh together?

. Can we agree on major life issues, such as children, family, values and friends, and style of living?

. Do we have a way of managing conflict?

. Can we love each other forever in the same way, without any hidden agenda to try to change the other?

. Are we compatible to each other in long run also?

You don't have to agree on everything. The important thing is that you and your partner have talked through these questions and both feel confident you can live and enjoy together, knowing what the other believes.

Some important things you should look in your life partner:

A life partner must be a good listener when you need him. He/she should be a dependable source of guidance and support and should not turn deaf ear simply because the problem is too big. If he/she doesn't know the solution, he will try the best to find one.

It is important to find someone with whom you can create a good relationship from the outset. Laughter is one clue to compatibility. It tells you how much you will enjoy each other's company over the long term. If your laughter together is good and healthy, and not at the expense of others, then you have a healthy relationship to the world.

Look for a partner who deals with the world in a way you respect. When two people first get together, they tend to see their relationship as existing only in the space between the two of them. As the relationship ages and grows, the outside world becomes important again. If your partner treats people or circumstances in a way you can't accept, you will inevitably come to grief. If you do not respect the way you each deal with the world around you, eventually, the two of you will not respect each other

Most importantly, find someone you can talk to. Communication is essential if a relationship is to last the distance.